Let’s Be Friends
Practice Being Kind
Children spend lots of time with friends at school. Being kind and understanding others’ feelings helps children have positive interactions.
- Audience
- Caregiver
- Subject
- School Readiness
- Age
- KindergartenPre-KPreschoolToddler
- Languages
- Brazilian PortugueseEnglishHaitian CreoleSimplified ChineseSpanish
- Materials
- Washable Markers, paper, cardstock, washi Tape, paper Bags, eye Stickers
For young children, saying “hi” or “thank you” is a great start. They might also show how they care for others, like pretending to feed a doll. But sharing and taking turns can be challenging while their brains are still developing. With time and practice, these skills get easier, helping children build friendships and confidence.
Try these activities together!
Puppet Play
Making puppets
- Decorate a paper bag as a puppet. Add eye stickers and let your child decorate the rest with markers and washi tape.
- Make different characters. They can be family members, friends, or animals.
- Talk about each puppet as you make them together. What do they like to eat, wear, or play with?
Pretend with puppets
- Together, use the puppets to act out everyday interactions.
- “Hi Cow!” “Hi Bunny! I like the color of your shirt!”
- “Can I play with you?’”
- “You bumped your head! That must hurt. Are you okay?”
- While playing, incorporate each other’s ideas. You might prompt a conversation, or you might follow what your child does.
- Use the puppets to practice sharing and taking turns with props and materials, “Let’s share the cookies!”
Making thank you cards
- Fold a sheet of cardstock paper in half.
- Using markers or washi tape, decorate the card by drawing or writing a message of thanks.
- Once the card is ready, give it to the person you and your child are thanking.
- Talk with your child about how the person might feel when they receive your thank you card. If your child doesn’t fully understand the idea, you can talk about why you are thanking someone: “Grandma was kind to you when he gave you the gift. Now you can be kind to her by making a card.”
Everyday Interactions
Say “hi” to a neighbor. Say “thank you” to the staff at the grocery store. There are many moments when you can show kindness to others! It’s okay if your child isn’t ready to say these things—it can be hard to talk to a stranger. Showing how you greet and thank others are great steps.
Ways to support your child
“Thank you for listening to my idea. It makes me feel happy.”
“Did you notice grandpa’s smile? How do you think your thank you card made him feel?”
Just for the grown-ups
Being kind to everyone is hard, even for adults! It’s normal to not always be your best in every situation. But your child will see how you interact with people in the neighborhood, at work, or in stores. Just do your best. Your child will notice your example!
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